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Headshot of Joan Hasibar Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Joan Hasibar

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Headshot of Joan Hasibar Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
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Get To Know Me
Specialties
Specializes in
Loss/GriefAttachment issuesPost-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)Trauma
General Expertise
DepressionAnxietyBorderline Personality DisorderAnger managementChild mental healthCodependencyDissociative disordersDivorce & separationDomestic violenceMood disordersPanic attacks & panic disorderParenting issuesPersonality disordersPremarital counselingPsychotic DisordersSex AddictionWomen's issues
Treatment Approaches
Strength Based TherapyMindfulness PracticesArt TherapyFamily Systems TherapyHumanistic TherapyJungian TherapyParent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT)Play TherapyTrauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness-Based Cognitive TherapyAttachment-Based TherapyExistential TherapyMarriage and Family TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyPastoral & Faith Based Counseling
Clientele
Types of Therapy
Family TherapyIndividual TherapyCouples Counseling
Serves Ages
ParentsYoung Adults (18-24)Adults (25-65)
Languages
English
Professional Background
LicensureCalifornia, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, 110956
Training/CertificationsAdvocacy Training (including domestic violence and sexual abuse/child molestation) - W.I.S.H. (Women in Safe Homes) - Ketchikan, AK​Exploring the Mask Within: Externalizing Shame Through Drama Therapy - North American Drama Therapy Association, SoCal Chapter NADTA WorkshopSeeking Safety (for Adolescents) - Hillsides - Gabriella GrantCommercial Sexual Exploitation of Children & Youth - HillsidesChild Sexual Abuse - NCTSN - HillsidesMental Health Interventions for Invidiuals with Co-Occuring MH or ID - Hillsides - Dr. Darlene Sweetland - HillsidesEFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples) - CAMFT San Gabriel Valley ChapterSeparated & Divorced Leadership Training - Office of Family Life Archdiocese of Los AngelesTriple P - Standard Level 4 (Parenting) HillsidesUnified Front - Honoring Our Unsung Military Heroes - USC School of Social WorkThe Other Invisible Woulds: Sex & the Military Conference - USC School of Social WorkAddressing Challenging Client Situations with Cultural Humility - County of Los Angeles Public Health Substance Abuse Prevention and Control - Pacific Southwest ATTCCDiversity Training - HillsidesIntroduction to the Assessment and Treatment for Skin-picking and Hair-pulling DisordersUnderstanding and Diagnosing Problematic Sexual Behaviors - CAMFT San Gabriel Valley ChapterSex & the Military Conference - USC School of Social WorkThe Call to Darkness: Managing Suicidality in Clinical Practice - Larry Hedges, PhD, Psyd, ABPPEvolutions in Trauma Treatment: Emerging Relational and Ecospiritual Pathways to Health and Healing - Dr. Chante' DeLoach - Azusa Pacific University - Voices ConferenceCrisis Intervention Training (CORS) - Nancy W. Kirshberg, MSWRisk Assessment & Crisis Intervention Strategies - Andrew Kurtz, LMFT - UCLA Integrated Substance Abuse Programs - ATTC - UCLATrauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT)Adult and Pediatric First Aid CPR AED with Anaphylaxis and Epinephrine Auto-InjectorHIPPA Awareness
Education
Masters in Clinical Psychology with Concentration in Marriage and Family Therapy
Bachelors in Psychcology
Work HistoryMy journey in psychology started in my junior year in high school when I took my first psychology 101 class. I was hooked. Never had I been so fascinated and absorbed in a subject that it was to remain a lifetime hunger for knowledge and understanding not only of others but of myself. Even when I was a child, my Father, as a business owner, would take me with him to meet with business contacts, reminding me to observe and learn human behavior while he was chatting away. Frankly, as a child, I was usually asking, Daddy, when can we go? I am bored. Little did I know that these experiences of observing and learning from others would catapult me into developing a lifelong skill and curiosity to understand and learn from others while helping them understand themselves and heal. My Mother was and still is the master of balance, faith, and wisdom. With a Bachelors in English and Teaching career before she met my Father, there has always been only one toy my Mother enjoyed and still does today. Books. She is one of the smartest people I know and has never stopped being curious, exploring, and discovering knowledge and sharing it with me. She was so worried that neither of her children would ever share this love with her. Thankfully, this changed and our Mother was able to follow along with me and my siblings as each of us stretched our minds and our possibilities in our higher educations. Every day with my Parents was a field trip and an ongoing adventure of discovery, learning, and growing; even when we were making mistakes. I am so grateful for the foundation and support they have given me. I feel as if they have given me a lifetime guarantee to endless possibilities. Pay it forward, my Mother reminds me. My Parents began this journey for me and I intend to pay it forward every step of the way. I know what it feels like to feel loved, supported, and challenged. In my adolescent years and early twenties, I was a survivor of domestic violence, compelling me to volunteer for the local shelter called W.I.S.H. (Women in Safe Homes), attending to the shelter residents, answering the hotline, and burning the candle at both ends, as my Mother would say, while working full-time at National Bank of Alaska and attending part-time at University of Alaska. I learned what it is like to be a victim and overcome. I learned what it is like to work hard; for those in need, for myself, and as a student. Fast forward to my late twenties when I met and fell in love with a man who had been suffering from PTSD as early as the day he was conceived. For many years, I learned by observing and engaging with my husband how debilitating PTSD and trauma can be and how many people and things are impacted by unresolved trauma. He was a man not part of my culture so I learned a great deal about multicultural diversity. He grew up in a broken home and in a neighborhood where few stayed out past sunset so I learned a great deal about what it is like to be a part of these types of environments. He was a Marine and a Deputy with the Los Angeles Sheriff Department in some of the most challenging areas of the city so I learned what it was like to be a soldier at war overseas, in law enforcement, and a wife of such a brave, cautious, highly skilled, and tormented man. In 2012, I began my graduate studies at Azusa Pacific University to achieve my Masters in Clinical Psychology with a Concentration in Marriage and Family Therapy. It was a second career for me after the economic downturn of 2008 and ending my first career of 17 years in banking due to massive layoffs that swept the country in 2010. I learned what it was like to lose a career and start all over again. This time, alone. My husband was gone, so I learned what it was like to lose a loved one. In 2014, I received not only my Masters in Clinical Psychology but also a University Award for Dedication to Learning. Both my Mother and Father were there to see this day and continue to witness my ongoing exploration in learning about others, meeting them at their crossroads, and joining them in grief and gratitude to eventually set them free. This is my intention. This is my promise. To pay it forward. To stay curious. To stay with you, as your Therapist, confidant, guide, and advocate. Stay Curious, J ~
Frequently Asked Questions
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