Marky Spies, LMHC, LPCLPC, LMHC

In the film Good Will Hunting, the therapist uses rare techniques like strong confrontation and lots of self disclosure. He does engage in a few unrealistic Hollywood therapist stereotypes. However, the themes of a therapist connecting and adapting skills to a difficult to reach client are inspiring to me. He builds a connection with someone who does not know how. He does not use manipulation or shame with a defensive client. He helps his client discover both his challenges and their solutions, while respecting and valuing him unconditionally. By connecting and creating safety to face and overcome pain, a successful plan comes to life.

It is my responsibility to help every client experience acceptance and hope at our first session. We will build a connection by finding your preferences with physical positioning, communication style and expectations from your therapist. I will help minimize anxiety, doubt or discomfort you may feel. I will explain my style, education and experience with your particular issues. Then we will develop a treatment plan based on your needs and goals. It is exciting to work with people on a journey to improvement, and I aim to have you share that hopefulness.

During my residency, research proved that theoretical knowledge and therapy skills are useless without a therapist-client connection. We researched how understanding family history, personality, culture, gender, orientation and beliefs facilitate that connection. Part of connection is clarity. Clients deserve to understand how therapy works, what the goals and expectations are and how your therapist plans to help achieve them. The residency transformed a rookie with good intentions to a a confident, excited practitioner.

• Georgia, Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC004284
• Florida, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MH5809

I was fortunate with inspired University professors, a transformative research residency and 30 years of experience. This created a solution focused and enthousiastic therapist. I have worked with people dealing with depression, anxiety, relationship issues, abuse histories, loneliness, addiction and stress to name a few. I am grateful for the positions in medical, psychiatric and private practice organizations that taught me what theory alone cannot. Being a confident, effective and joyful therapist does not only benefit clients, it rewards the therapist as well.