Last edited 05/26/2025

Monica Whitlock
She / Her / Hers
Accepting New Clients
Identifies As
She / Her / HersWomanBlack/African AmericanHeterosexualChristianityBIPOC
Get To Know Me
What would be important for someone to know about working with you?
I believe that therapy is a partnership—we're in this together. I’ll walk hand-in-hand with you through the process, offering support, guidance, and accountability. But here's something important to know: I won’t work harder than you do. Real change happens when you're actively engaged in your own healing, and I’m here to support you every step of the way.
I’m also a therapist who gives homework. That doesn’t mean anything overwhelming—it simply means I’ll often offer reflections, journaling prompts, or small exercises to try between sessions. Why? Because therapy isn’t just about what happens in our sessions—it’s about applying what you learn in your real life. Homework helps us both see what’s working, what needs adjusting, and how you're growing over time.
If you’re ready to show up, do the work, and invest in yourself, I’m ready to help guide you toward healing, growth, and self-discovery.
What is your style/approach to therapy?
My approach is warm, honest, and collaborative. I believe in meeting you exactly where you are—no judgment, no pressure. This is your journey, and I’m here to walk alongside you, offering support, tools, and insight along the way.
I’m deeply committed to creating a space where you feel seen, heard, and empowered to make meaningful changes. That said, I believe in balance—I’ll show up and do my part, but I won’t work harder than you do. True growth happens when we both lean in and do the work together. I’ll challenge you when it’s needed, and I’ll also hold space for your pace, your voice, and your goals.
Therapy with me is not one-size-fits-all. I adapt my approach based on your needs, drawing from evidence-based techniques while keeping things real, relatable, and human. Whether we’re exploring patterns, navigating healing, or just figuring out what’s next, my role is to help you reconnect with yourself and create a life that feels more aligned and authentic.
In what ways have your personal experiences influenced your work with your clients?
My personal journey has shaped the way I show up as a therapist. I know what it’s like to face hard seasons, to question your identity, and to try to rebuild after life doesn’t go as planned. Because of this, I bring a deep sense of empathy, honesty, and realness into my work.
I understand that healing isn’t linear and that growth takes courage. These experiences have taught me to honor each person’s unique path and to create a space that feels safe, supportive, and judgment-free. I don’t just speak from theory—I understand the importance of having someone walk with you through the process, not above you or in front of you, but beside you.
Because I’ve done my own healing work, I’m able to hold space for yours with compassion and clarity. It’s important to me that clients feel seen and understood—not just as a diagnosis or a story, but as a whole person with strengths, struggles, and unlimited potential.
Specialties
Specializes in
DepressionAnxietyWork StressRelationship IssuesLoss/Grief
General Expertise
DepressionCareersWork StressRelationship IssuesSelf-EsteemSocial AnxietyAnger managementCaregiver stress & supportCollege & graduate student issuesDivorce & separationFamily issuesImpulse control issuesSleep & insomnia issuesLife coachingLife transitionsOppositional & defiant behaviorParenting issuesStressWomen's issuesBurnout
Treatment Approaches
Strength Based TherapyPsychoanalysisCognitive Processing TherapyPerson-Centered TherapyNarrative TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingAcceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)CoachingRelational Therapy
Clientele
Types of Therapy
Individual Therapy
Serves Ages
Young Adults (18-24)Adults (25-65)
Languages
English
Insurance & Fees
Insurances Accepted
AetnaAnthemBlue Cross Blue ShieldBlue ShieldCignaUMRUnitedHealthCare (UHC)Blue Cross Blue Shield of MassachusettsBlue Cross NCCarelon Behavioral HealthHorizon Blue Cross Blue ShieldOscar HealthOxford Health PlansQuest Behavioral HealthUnitedHealthcare
Cash Pay Rates/Out-of-Pocket
| First Session: | $150 |
| Individual Therapy: | $120 |
Professional Background
LicensureNorth Carolina, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor - Supervisor, 15150Virginia, Licensed Professional Counselor - Supervisor, 0701007714
Education
Adams State University, Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Clinical Mental Health Counseling, 2013 — I hold a Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Adams State University, a program known for its strong emphasis on social justice, culturally responsive care, and ethical clinical practice. My graduate training included extensive coursework in counseling theory, diagnosis, trauma-informed care, and multicultural counseling.
During my time at Adams State, I focused my research and clinical training on supporting individuals navigating trauma, identity development, and life transitions. My academic work and practical experiences have deeply informed my approach, allowing me to provide compassionate, evidence-based care tailored to each client’s unique needs.
In addition to coursework, I actively participated in professional development opportunities and peer collaboration groups that emphasized advocacy, cultural humility, and service to underrepresented communities.
Work HistoryOver the years, I’ve had the opportunity to work in a variety of settings that have shaped how I support people navigating mental health challenges, trauma, and life transitions.
My private practice, Insight Awaken PLLC, is the heart of the work I do today. Through this space, I provide individual and group therapy with a focus on trauma, anxiety, depression, and helping people rediscover their identity—especially during major life changes. I also supervise new therapists, support organizations with developing mental health programs, and lead trainings on trauma-informed care and wellness strategies.
Before launching my own practice, I worked extensively with both children and adults in community-based settings. At Children’s Hope Alliance, I led a team that served children with serious emotional and behavioral needs. We worked closely with families, schools, and other providers to ensure each child received care tailored to their specific situation. I learned a lot about building trust with families and creating practical, supportive plans that make a real difference in daily life.
My work with Vaya Health and Cardinal Innovations involved helping individuals with complex mental health and substance use needs—especially those who were at high risk or transitioning between care settings. I helped clients access the support they needed by creating personalized care plans, coordinating with medical teams, and staying connected through life’s ups and downs. This is where my passion for integrated care—treating the whole person, not just symptoms—really deepened.
I also had the privilege of working with college students during my time at TimelyMD, offering teletherapy support during a critical time in their development. Supporting young adults as they navigate independence, relationships, and identity helped me further develop my strengths in crisis intervention and compassionate listening.
Currently, I also conduct clinical assessments for individuals seeking treatment for eating disorders with Transcend ED. This work requires thoughtful evaluation, collaboration with treatment teams, and sensitivity to each person’s unique story and needs.
Earlier in my career, I gained experience in long-term care settings, conducting specialized evaluations to help determine appropriate care for individuals with both medical and behavioral health needs. That work reinforced the importance of person-centered care—meeting people where they are and advocating for services that truly fit.
Across all these roles, I’ve developed a deep commitment to culturally responsive care, holistic wellness, and empowering people through every step of their healing journey.
Frequently Asked Questions
It’s not uncommon to have questions before starting therapy.
Monica Whitlock, LCMHC-S, LPC-S, has answered a few of the questions they receive most often from new clients.
Is Monica Whitlock accepting new clients?
Yes, Monica Whitlock is accepting new clients.
Does Monica Whitlock accept insurance?
Yes, Monica Whitlock accepts insurance, including Aetna, Anthem, Blue Cross Blue Shield, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts, Blue Cross NC, Blue Shield, Carelon Behavioral Health, Cigna, Horizon Blue Cross Blue Shield, Oscar Health, Oxford Health Plans, Quest Behavioral Health, UMR, UnitedHealthCare (UHC) and UnitedHealthcare.
What types of therapy does Monica Whitlock offer?
Monica Whitlock offers therapy for individuals.
Does Monica Whitlock offer in-person appointments?
No, but people in North Carolina and Virginia can book Monica Whitlock for virtual appointments (teletherapy).
Does Monica Whitlock offer online therapy?
Yes, Monica Whitlock offers online therapy to people in North Carolina and Virginia.
How quickly can I see Monica Whitlock?
Monica Whitlock typically can speak with new clients within 48 hours. You can see their current general office hours and request an appointment on their profile page.
What languages does Monica Whitlock speak?
Monica Whitlock conducts therapy sessions in English.
Can I book an appointment with Monica Whitlock online?
Yes, you can easily book an appointment with Monica Whitlock online using ChoosingTherapy.com’s directory.
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