Last edited 03/23/2026
Identifies As
She / Her / Hers
Get To Know Me
What do you view as a key component of the therapeutic relationship?
I firmly believe that the therapeutic relationship is one of the most powerful catalysts for change. Research consistently shows that a strong, trusting connection between therapist and client is one of the top predictors of success in therapy. I create a safe, nonjudgmental space where clients feel understood, valued, and empowered to explore their experiences. By fostering this alliance, we can work collaboratively to unravel deep-seated patterns and build the skills necessary for healing. The relationship we build together becomes a foundation for transformation, allowing clients to confront challenges with greater resilience and clarity. I am deeply committed to being an active and empathetic partner in this process, offering support as clients navigate their unique journey toward growth and recovery.
What does a first session with you look like?
In our first session, I strive to create a relaxed and stress-free environment, with the goal of simply getting to know you better. There's no need to worry about having the "right" words or a perfect way to share your story—authenticity is what matters most to me. I want you to feel comfortable, knowing that your thoughts and feelings will be met with understanding and compassion, no matter how they come across. This initial meeting is all about building a foundation of trust, where you can speak freely, at your own pace, without any pressure to fit into a specific mold. Whether you share your experiences through words, feelings, or even silences, I’m here to listen and support you as we begin this journey together.
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Specialties
Specializes in
Abuse/Survivors of abuseAttachment issuesNarcissismPersonality disorders
General Expertise
DepressionAnxietyRelationship IssuesSelf-EsteemAbuse/Survivors of abuseAdolescent mental healthAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesCodependencyDivorce & separationDomestic violenceIdentity developmentLife transitionsNarcissismPersonality disordersStressWomen's issuesMarriage issuesInfidelityFamilies
Treatment Approaches
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Person-Centered TherapyHumanistic TherapyInternal Family Systems TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Relational Therapy
Clientele
Types of Therapy
Family TherapyCouples CounselingIndividual Therapy
Serves Ages
ParentsYoung Adults (18-24)Adults (25-65)Children (5-12)Adolescents (13-17)
Languages
English
Professional Background
LicensureIllinois, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, 149.026508
Training/CertificationsCertified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician (NATC)
Education
University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign, Master of Social Work, Social Work, 2022 — I continued my studies at the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign with the goal of becoming a therapist. :)
University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign, Bachelor of Science, Psychology, 2019 — I studied psychology with a strong focus on cognition and memory.
Work HistoryI became a therapist driven by a deep passion for helping individuals heal from complex emotional trauma. Early in my career, I quickly recognized a significant gap in specialized care for survivors of narcissistic abuse and individuals struggling with narcissistic tendencies. This realization sparked my dedication to focusing on these often overlooked issues. I opened Two Lights Therapy Center, a practice based in Chicago, in the hopes of working specifically with folks affected by narcissism. My work centers on understanding the intricate dynamics of narcissism and attachment—how early relationships shape our sense of self and influence our interactions with others. I specialize in helping clients navigate the long-lasting effects of narcissistic abuse, rebuild their sense of self-worth, and develop healthier, more secure attachments. I believe that by addressing both narcissistic behaviors and their emotional roots, we can foster healing and create lasting change for those affected by these complex relational dynamics.
Frequently Asked Questions
It’s not uncommon to have questions before starting therapy.
Erika Koch-Weser, LCSW, has answered a few of the questions they receive most often from new clients.
Is Erika Koch-Weser accepting new clients?
Yes, Erika Koch-Weser is accepting new clients for online therapy in Illinois.
Does Erika Koch-Weser accept insurance?
No, Erika Koch-Weser does not accept insurance.
What types of therapy does Erika Koch-Weser offer?
Erika Koch-Weser offers therapy for couples, families and individuals.
Does Erika Koch-Weser offer in-person appointments?
No, but people in Illinois can book Erika Koch-Weser for virtual appointments (teletherapy).
Does Erika Koch-Weser offer online therapy?
Yes, Erika Koch-Weser offers online therapy via video sessions and phone sessions to people in Illinois.
How quickly can I see Erika Koch-Weser?
Erika Koch-Weser typically can speak with new clients within 48 hours. You can see their current general office hours and request an appointment on their profile page.
What languages does Erika Koch-Weser speak?
Erika Koch-Weser conducts therapy sessions in English.
Can I book an appointment with Erika Koch-Weser online?
Yes, you can easily book an appointment with Erika Koch-Weser online using ChoosingTherapy.com’s directory.
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