Last edited 04/10/2026
Paul Rubin
Identifies As
Man, CisgenderEastern European, Jewish, WhiteHeterosexualJudaism
Get To Know Me
What would be important for someone to know about working with you?
Many people I work with have already spent time trying to understand themselves, yet still feel stuck in patterns that do not seem to shift. This may show up in relationships, work, or within yourself, often leaving you feeling frustrated, misunderstood, or unsure how to move forward. You may have insight into what is happening, but find that understanding alone has not led to meaningful change.
My approach is guided by what begins to take shape in the moment rather than a fixed method. I emphasize presence and pacing, creating a space where nothing is forced or rushed. Together, we bring attention to your experience as it happens, including patterns that may be difficult to recognize from the inside.
This work tends to resonate with people who have already spent time trying to understand themselves, but are looking for a different kind of experience that can begin to shift patterns over time, not just more insight.
Starting therapy can feel uncertain, especially if you have already spent time trying to work through things on your own. If this resonates, you are welcome to reach out.
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Specialties
Specializes in
DepressionRelationship IssuesAttachment issuesBipolar disorderMen's health
General Expertise
AnxietyLoss/GriefSelf-EsteemAnger managementCodependencyCommunication issuesCompulsive behaviorDependence issuesIdentity developmentLife transitionsMood disordersPanic attacks & panic disorderParenting issuesPost-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)Self HarmSuicidal ideationTraumaMarriage issuesCouplesBurnout
Treatment Approaches
Humanistic TherapyJungian TherapySomatic TherapyExistential TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyRelational Therapy
Clientele
Types of Therapy
Couples CounselingIndividual Therapy
Serves Ages
ParentsYoung Adults (18-24)Adults (25-65)Seniors (65+)
Languages
English
Professional Background
LicensureCalifornia, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, 157283
Education
Meridian University, Master of Science in Counseling, 2023
Work HistoryMy name is Paul Rubin. I am originally from Houston, Texas and have resided in the Bay Area since 2009. With my growing family, I plan to be in the Bay Area for the foreseeable future. I believe it can be a meaningful place to live, with opportunities for both personal and professional growth, as well as building community.
When I first moved to the Bay Area, I set out to become a therapist, but took a detour into the financial services industry as a financial planner. I eventually found my way back to it. I have a deep commitment to psychotherapy and to this work. My experience includes working with children and young adults on the autism spectrum, students in public schools, individuals in a homeless shelter, adults in private practice, families in a community health clinic, and older adults in long-term care. These experiences have shaped how I understand both the complexity and commonality of human experience across different settings.
Throughout these experiences, I have come to appreciate both the depth and breadth of the suffering we encounter as humans, and the importance of being with one another in those experiences. Through getting to know others in my work, I have also come to know more of myself. This can have a healing quality for everyone involved, and I have experienced this as a client as well. I continue this work with those who choose to engage in it. This ongoing process shapes how I show up and what I am able to recognize in the room.
This background shapes how I listen and what I pay attention to in my work, including how I recognize patterns as they emerge, particularly in ways that may not be immediately obvious.
In my work, I tend to stay close to what is unfolding rather than moving too quickly toward explanation or resolution. This allows for aspects of a person’s experience that are not immediately obvious to become more recognizable over time. Through this process, greater self-awareness can develop, along with a deeper sense of stability and choice.
Frequently Asked Questions
It’s not uncommon to have questions before starting therapy.
Paul Rubin, LMFT, has answered a few of the questions they receive most often from new clients.
Is Paul Rubin accepting new clients?
Yes, Paul Rubin is accepting new clients for online therapy in California and in-person appointments at 1905 Berkeley Way, Berkeley, CA, 94704.
Does Paul Rubin accept insurance?
No, Paul Rubin does not accept insurance.
What types of therapy does Paul Rubin offer?
Paul Rubin offers therapy for couples and individuals.
Does Paul Rubin offer in-person appointments?
Yes, Paul Rubin offers in-person appointments at 1905 Berkeley Way, Berkeley, CA, 94704.
Does Paul Rubin offer online therapy?
Yes, Paul Rubin offers online therapy via video sessions and phone sessions to people in California.
How quickly can I see Paul Rubin?
Paul Rubin typically can speak with new clients within 48 hours. You can see their current general office hours and request an appointment on their profile page.
What languages does Paul Rubin speak?
Paul Rubin conducts therapy sessions in English.
Can I book an appointment with Paul Rubin online?
Yes, you can easily book an appointment with Paul Rubin online using ChoosingTherapy.com’s directory.
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